Wants and Needs

'Tis the holiday season, and that means that it's the time to think about things that I want, things that I need, and what the difference is. Truth is, I don't really need anything. I could get through the future days the same way I've gotten through past days. People could argue that I need my meds so that I don't flop over seizing, hit my head and die. People could argue that I need money to pay bills and buy groceries and school supplies. People could argue that because of money, I therefore need my job. All of these would be correct, but in reality, what can a person live off of? Very little is actually a necessity. Food, shelter, and water... all of which I have. So in that sense, I don't need anything.

Wants are a completely different story. I want my computer to work smoothly. I want a new phone, or for mine to work the way it's supposed to. I want a new backpack. I want peace on earth. I want tolerance and understanding. I want certain people to be part of my life. I want friends. I want certain circumstances to change. I want a lot of things. But the thing about wants is that they are much more difficult to satisfy than needs, and one must learn to be content with wanting. Wants don't carry the expectation of being fulfilled; they only exist as desires. And I'm ok with that. Yes, I want things, but I can accept that I won't get most of them.

Then there are wants that become needs. There are moments when I truly feel like if I don't do something or get something or change something that I will go completely insane. Today is one of those days, and luckily for me, it is an easy fix. I need to exercise. I need to do karate. I need the peace that comes with it. I need the automatic responses. I need the sweat. I would like bruises. I need to do what I do best, for the sake of my own sanity.

So that's what I'm going to do today. I am going to go to school and work out. I will find peace, calm, and harmony. I will be centered. I will work hard. I will be in my happy place. And then, when I'm there, the rest of the world will fall away as it always does, and I will forget the rest of the wants. I will forget the struggles I have been dealing with for the last year. The thing I love most about karate is that it has the capacity to change absolutely everything without actually changing anything at all. And sometimes, that's all I need. That's all anyone needs: simple moments of quiet in a storm.